-Erika “Digging Deep” Ray
I love this time of year. People are aiming to do and be better. I love that buzz. If you were a bad friend who flaked on your other friends, you vow to be present in the circle a little more. If you ate shity ass fast food, you vow to fill your tummy with fresh greens or at least stuff not sold with a side of salt and a toy. If you changed the channels on the tv more than you changed into your running shoes, you start to get up. Call these a resolution or just call it a new leaf, I don’t care. But deep down, every single person vows the next year will be a little different.
I do it every year. I also do this at my birthday. I don’t do it because I think I’m an awful person, I do it because the blank page of a new year allows it. This year, I figured I’d pick a word. A lot of solid people do this yearly tradition. They find a word and promise to live their life honoring those letters. I’ve never done it because I’ve never wanted to be that deep. And when I make my new year vows, it’s just a general Be Nicer kind of promise. Because that’s the Lazy Comfy Gal way. This year, I’m smacking myself around a bit and I’m getting deep on my ass. I’m picking a word: BRAVE.
I am a Lazy/Comfy Gal. That doesn’t necessarily mean I lay on the couch and have my kids get me stuff. To me, those words means you accept your life and think, “This is good and I’m happy with it.” We’re not wealthy, but we pay our bills and occasionally go out to dinner. I watch what I eat, but I could be better. My kids are content, but I could push them a little more. But I shouldn’t be so lazy or comfy. I need to be BRAVE. Push back on life and see what it throws back. Maybe it will shoot back with some fantastic Life Glitter. Or maybe it will puke back some Life Shit. But at least I was pushing and living.
First step in being BRAVE, give back and don’t worry about the outcome. “Why would you worry about the outcome, Erika?” I hear you saying… Easy. Will people buy them? Will someone have a fit about the funds? It’s a ton of work, do I have the time? What if we screw up the ordering process? Where does the money actually go? What if it isn’t enough money? How much time will it take from my family? It’s going to be so much work. Blah. Blah. Blah. That’s all shit. That’s the Lazy Comfy Gal speak.
The BRAVE girl speak is: I don’t give a flying poo about any of that. People need money and I can help give a few dimes. You give because it’s the right thing to do. The details are so important. Only the doing.
You can help give a few dimes too (If you’ve already given, share this blog post!). And when you give, you’ll receive a beautiful notecard set: the following 6 4×6 blank cards for only $12! Please helps us (6 fabulous photographers), help the families of Newtown, Connecticut. I can only imagine how brave those families were when the kids had to go back to school this week. Let’s help make it a little easier for them.
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